Army Buddies

New Mexico 171Meet my Army buddy, Loretta

After over 25 years of not having seen each other, we reconnected during my cross country trip from New York to New Mexico and around to San Antonio, Texas last year and again this year when I returned for the Wild Wicked Weekend.

Loretta took me to this great Mexican restaurant, Chachos, where they serve the tastiest Margaritas. Chachos serves so many Margaritas, they have them pre-mixed in one of those huge slushy machines.

It was a little strange to discover Chachos doesn’t have black olives to put on it’s nachos. According to Loretta, Mexicans don’t use black olives.

Water & Fire

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I found this amazing fountain at Pat O’Brien’s restaurant in San Antonio, Texas right across from the Menger Hotel.

The fountain is a combination of fire and water.

Plus Pat O’Brien has the most amazing alligator bits appetizers Cajun style.

 

 

Wild Wicked Weekend

Spent the week enjoying time with authors Desiree Holt, Samantha Cayto, Dalton Diaz, Brenna Zinn and Regina Carlysle and so many other wonderful authors and readers.

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San Antonio, Texas was amazing.    I stayed at the Menger hotel directly across from the Alamo.

The Menger is known for it’s ghosts. I can tell you for a fact, they do have a few ghosts running around.

Snow for New York City

Yep, we have another snow day this Saturday. It follows the day of light rain which was preceded by a snow storm which layered another four inches followed by freezing rains. Sames, we’d due for more of the white stuff and freezing temperatures for the coming week.

I feel sorry for my partner and friends who remain behind in the cold while I go off to warmer climates in San Antonio, Texas to enjoy the Wild Wicked Weekend with Desiree Holt, Samantha Cayto and more.

I’ll make sure to let you know if they really do grow them bigger in Texas. Desiree promised me a lickable cowboy for the weekend’s entertainment.

Saturday Sunrise

I woke up at 3 a.m. and couldn’t do back to sleep so just started working on BDSM WRITERS CON. There’s always tons of things to do.

However it was wonderful to see the sunrise. To hear the birds calling to each other.

The way the snow coats the trees, icicles hanging from it.

I just keep hearing in my head the old Army advertising, “We do more before 8:00 a.m. than most people do all do.”.  Yet that’s my life at the moment. Almost thirty years later and I’m still having Army moments.

What kind of moments are you having?

 

Authors Buddy Program

This year for BDSM Writers Con, novice and aspiring authors will be paired up with a veteran authors such as Desiree Holt, Marla Monroe, Destiny Blaine and more to help them navigate through the stumbling blocks of publishing. This includes assistance with writing a query letter, publisher information, marketing ideas, and more.

The limits and boundaries of the Authors Buddy Program are decided by its participants. Authors will be paired up on a first come first paired bases. The Authors Buddy Program is absolutely FREE. Only authors registered for BDSM Writers Con are eligible.

Learn more about this amazing program of authors Helping authors at BDSM Writers Con.

Only registered authors eligible. Hurry offer ends March 17, 2014.

Look forward to seeing you all August 21 in New York City.

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LIVE CHAT with Miranda Baker

Tonight it was a pleasure to have author Miranda Baker on my LIVE CHAT talk show.

Miranda spoke about her work as an erotic author, her playful time with her partner living her erotic writings, and insight into the workshop she’s presenting with Desiree Holt and Leia Shaw, From the Books to the Bedroom: Bringing Fantasy to Life during BDSM Writers Con August 21-24, 2014 in NYC.

We also had a wonderful discussion on the joys of interacting with your partner and trying new things allowing yourself to be playful and adventurous as you make “sex your hobby”; learning about it and exploring and investing in it; whether it’s doing a workshop, buying a book, or entering into a Kink Mentorship with a knowledgeable instructor.

A wonderful insight during our discussion was the fact that her new book, Power Trip, is about electrical play and her extensive research into physics to ensure she was able to provide accurate information. During BDSM WRITERS CON, Jay & MaryAnn will conduct a fabulous LIVE DEMO on Electric Play. You’ll discover what it is, how to do it, and how to embrace your desires associated with it. Plus, Jay always joins us for our BDSM Club Night and allows you to experience it yourself–giving and receiving! This is definitely one of those workshops you wouldn’t want to miss.

Listen to a recording of our LIVE CHAT.